Your Picker's Not Broken by Don Ratliff

If you’ve ever looked back at your relationships and wondered, Why do I keep choosing the wrong people? — this book is for you. Your Picker’s Not Broken challenges the idea that we repeatedly end up in painful relationships because something is fundamentally wrong with us. Instead, it looks at the patterns, expectations, emotional needs, and familiar dynamics that influence who we are attracted to — often without us even realizing it. With honesty and practical insight, Don Ratliff explores why certain people feel so compelling, why red flags can be easy to overlook, and why chemistry doesn’t always lead us where we hoped it would. More importantly, this book is about what happens next. You’ll learn how to recognize the patterns behind your choices, understand what you may really be looking for in a relationship, and make more conscious decisions without beating yourself up over the past. Your picker may not be broken. It may simply have been choosing based on things you never understood before. And once you understand them, you can choose differently.